I didn’t abandon Daniel – Teenage stowaway’s father
Ohikhena |
Two
weeks after his son flew from Benin City to Lagos in the wheel
compartment of an aircraft belonging to Arik Air, Daniel Ohikhena’s
father denies claims that he abandoned his family, writes JAMES AZANIA
Little is known about Daniel
Ohikhena, the 13-year-old stowaway whoOhikhena flew from Benin City to Lagos in
the wheel compartment of a plane belonging to Arik Air, by his
schoolmates at Ogbe Junior Secondary School in the Edo State capital.
Shortly before his celebrated escapade,
Daniel’s mother, Mrs. Evelyn Ohikhena, had withdrawn him from a private
secondary school for want of money to pay his tuition fees. She had
enrolled him in OJSS, which was about 500 metres from her residence.
Investigation by our correspondent shows
that the teenager had spent only a term in his new school before
embarking on the dangerous adventure. A source said, on condition of
anonymity, that Daniel joined the school, popularly known as ‘Ezoti
Junior’ just before the end of the third term.
A youth named Festus, who also resides
in the same neighbourhood as the stowaway boy, said the latter was not
popular in the area.
“We hardly know him. It was recently
that we heard he lives in the neighbourhood. I have not seen much of
him. He was very quiet at school. I have not known him for long,” he
said.
However, events took a dramatic turn on
Tuesday when the boy’s father, Osaigbovo Ohikhena, 44, materialised as
if from nowhere. Earlier, his wife (Daniel’s mother) had claimed that
they did not live together.
Mr. Ohikhena, who is a driver by
profession, said he had been separated from his family for a year
because of a misunderstanding between him and Daniel’s mum. But he
denied the latter’s claim that he abandoned his family.
“I always pay my children’s school fees
and provide money for their feeding regularly, contrary to claims that I
abandoned my family. After I lost my job, I decided to move to a
cheaper apartment and told my wife that they should move in with me. But
she refused and continued to stay in the three-bedroom flat. My new
residence is located on Siluko Road. I decided to come here (Government
House) to tell the world that I am the father of Daniel.
“Initially, when I heard the news, I
thought my son was kidnapped. But my wife said I should calm down and
she promised to get back to me when everything is finally okay. I never
dreamt of going to America nor am I married to another woman. My wife
refused to give the DSS my phone number when they asked for it,” he
said.
Giving an insight to what could have
been responsible for the teenager’s strange behaviour, an expert and
sociologist at the University of Benin, Dr Kingsley Omoyibo, described
him as suffering from maladjusted personality, due to inability to mix.
Omoyibo did not only warn against labelling the teenager a criminal
because of his action; he recommended that the youngster be made to
undergo rehabilitation.
Noting that what happened to Daniel
could have resulted from his experience in his home, the don urged the
boy’s parents to live up to their responsibilities in order to prevent
untoward behaviour from their children in the future.
He said, “Like we learnt, the boy is a
recluse. He has a withdrawn personality because he does not mix. This is
why he acts the way he does. This condition is capable of making him do
damage not only to himself, but to his siblings and his immediate
environment.
“The boy needs to be rehabilitated.
Although we cannot say that his attempt to stowaway in the wheel
compartment of an aircraft is criminal behaviour, it is a devious act
that must have been propelled by lack of adequate parental care. I do
not know the background, but what we can extrapolate from this is that
the home is not stable.
“You will find out that there is a
lacuna in the upbringing of the boy and consequently, it has affected
the way he reasons and appreciates societal issues. The way he sees the
complexity of society is different from a child that has complete
socialization. The boy is suffering from maladjusted personality.
“Indeed, that child, I still maintain,
is not a criminal. In the process of maladjustment, he is exposed to
odious things. For a child to keep all night watching films, it tells a
lot about his state of mind.”
Now that a group known as
De RAUFS has offered the teenage stowaway scholarship up to university
level, it is the duty of his parents to seek ways of reshaping his
character for a better future.
I didn’t abandon Daniel – Teenage stowaway’s father
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